Dating a separated woman
He may not be prepared to see his wife dating anyone else and give the both of you a hard time.
Be willing to meet the children on terms that are comfortable for their mother and for them, even if that means waiting a while to finally meet them.
Ultimately, I just want to know that I was right to feel the concern I felt due to the lack of progress? I am fearful that perhaps I pushed him away and he may not come back to me when all is said and done.
I also wonder if this is so easy for him that he will never get divorced and settle for a life of being roommates with his wife. If it was “right,” you wouldn’t have written this letter to me.
He must grieve, mourn and separate before he can maintain a healthy, loving, confident relationship with me.
I also know that he said the reason why it’s been so slow is because they are just in this robotic routine that has become very easy.