Dating someone with ocd tips
Seven months later, I got into a new relationship, and I told her about it. Aspies tend to have certain interests that they hyperfocus on.Because of how she came to understand the concept of jealousy, here’s how our dialogue turned out…Me: I have a new girlfriend now, Princess. Some aspies end up being classified as geniuses because of this, but it also means that this kind of hyperfocus comes at the expense of a lot of other things. An aspie who hyperfocuses can and will neglect you, even if they do care about you.If you’re not ready to work with them through this, don’t expect the relationship to last very long. Except for our Facebook status, Princess and I still treat each other exactly the same way we did when we were in a relationship.It’s good in that there is no drama or bitterness after the breakup, but it’s bad in that I, being an NT, tend to forget that we’re no longer together sometimes.There are so many resources out there to understand aspies better. The day I realized Princess was an aspie, I did all the research I could just to make sure that I could still somehow make her happy even if I don’t fully understand every facet of her.You can get in touch with Autism Society Philippines if you wish to ask people who are in the know. Even though we aren’t together anymore, just waking up to her sending me a smiley to start my morning off never fails to brighten up my mood, and having her offer me a hug and her standard response of “condolence ^____^” when I’m feeling down and out never fails to turn my day around.
I learned pretty early on to not take it against her when she completely ignores me during a convention.
To this day, she’s still one of my dearest friends, and one of the sweetest persons you will ever meet in your life.
And like anyone else, aspies, as they are fondly referred to, certainly are capable and deserving of love and affection, even romance.
This doesn’t mean they don’t love you enough: it is what it is.
Their affection for you and their ability to hyperfocus tend to be mutually exclusive. As a cosplayer, Princess will often be oblivious to everyone and everything else while she imbibes her character.